Some people think being a camgirl is a distraction and not a real job. Even if you can have fun and get a kick out of it, you still need to combine patience, know-how and experience to make a lot of money. Focus is required to blow up in this provocative profession : the misconceptions.
Being a camgirl is honest work, just like any job and there is no shame in being desired in front of the camera. Contrary to popular belief, it’s not enough to lie on a bed or sit on a chair with a smile on your face and earn a living. A lot of hard work and dedication is required to build a paying fan base. Prejudices about camgirl activities are stubborn and remain strong in the minds of most. Let’s demystify 3 common misconceptions about being a camgirl
Misconception #1: it is wrong to mix sex and money
Let’s put it in context. Ok, we’re selling virtual sex. In no case do we meet our fans and sell our bodies as an escort or a prostitute on the street. I like to think that we are more like on-screen fantasies. To be a camgirl is to sell a dream, it’s awakening your fantasies and the desires of men via a live camera.
Some might compare us to porn actresses, and we’re closer to them than to prostitutes. However, the majority of cam models are solo stars fulfilling your wildest desires! Besides, if I don’t like one of my subscribers or a user, I can ban him. This is not possible in other sex professions to which we are wrongly associated.
Morally which is worst: a.) to sell you virtual sex b.) offer you a loan with hidden fees or c.) to scam old people by selling them things they don’t need? Personally, I prefer to be a camgirl, do my live shows and get great gifts that I have earned from my loving fans. I find option A. to be much more honest.
Misconception #2: I have to pay while you are having sex?
So having live simulated sex should be for free? Is it common for a person to exhibit their intimacy on camera as a camgirls or camboys does?
I understand that there are people who don’t enjoy their work, and I feel sorry for them but they receive a salary. I have made the choice to have an orgasm in my professional activity while meeting the obligations of a modest standard of living. In addition, being a camgirl gives me a certain freedom because as a freelance entrepreneur, I manage my schedules, I give myself multiple vacations and I get to chat with multiple personalities. If you don’t like your life, take a chance and go after the thing that you truly desire.
If you want to watch me make me happy, you’ll have to pay. Isn’t that fair ? I “sell” my time, my know-how, experiences and I listen to your wishes.
Misconception #3: anyone can film themselves and expect the money to come rolling in
If being in front of the camera and facing many strangers was easy, everyone would be doing it. Being a camgirl requires several assets and also to have self-confidence. Feeling desirable is indeed important because you emit an energy that is pleasing to your audience. Smiling is extremely important when you are interacting with a live audience. Also listening and knowing how to anticipate everyone’s needs even when they are express it in a very brutal way.
Let’s be honest, not everyone has the best mannerism when speaking with a webcam model. Your success is typically defined by understand and meeting a request or being frustrated and turn off the camera. Retaining control and power is important on the contrary as this restores confidence for future shows.
So being a good camgirl requires several special qualities and it is not as easy as it sounds. We must forget these stupid and false misconceptions. Personally, I have a real affection for my subscribers, they are not just traveling wallets. I understand their desires and I can often anticipate what they will ask me. They respect my limits and thank me with tips, gifts and other things for the pleasure I bring them. It’s a mutual exchange between my fans and I and that is what makes me a good camgirl.