Dirty talk is literally speaking in a “dirty”, naughty, or provocative way – depending on which term you prefer. Some customers love to hear you say rude things to get more excited. Have no shame and go for it. 

You’ve started your show, you’re on, you’re hot, you’re going at your own pace, and you’re seeing the number of viewers grow. And among the comments, you’ll suddenly get a message that says, “talk dirty”. If this leaves you speechless or stuck, here are some tips on how to approach dirty talk. 

What do you do? 

It depends on what you’re looking for. If you’re in a niche market and have a lot of fetishists in your fan base, dirty talk is a must. Especially in domination / submission relationships. So, you’ll have to learn or dare to talk dirty without shame. Also, learning more about dirty talk can always be a plus!

In fact, one of the most common requests is often for Jerk Off Instructions (JOI) where the whole show revolves around telling a guy how to get off.

Don’t underestimate the power of dirty talk. Dirty talk can be a powerful lever to make your customers more satisfied and your shows more satisfying. And therefore, even better. Even for men, stimulating the brain for a good ejaculation counts! Moreover, creating a fantasy world makes the show more interactive and gives your actions more value. An aspect which tends to make your clients more loyal. The more satisfied they are, the more they come back. And new clients will stay, too. So put your imagination to work and talk dirty! 

Tone, rhythm, and description

For a more engaging show, it’s a good idea to interact verbally with your viewers. Hearing you talk can open the door to their fantasies more quickly. And then you have the control to steer your show in the direction you want. So, if a client presses you to go faster or harder, you can refocus him using dirty talk. Tell him, for example, that it turns you on and that it makes you wet to go slower, if he is pressing you. 

The tone, the rhythm of the voice has an undeniable impact on your viewers’ fantasies. A smooth voice will always be more exciting than a high-pitched voice. A slower pace will also allow the client to immerse himself more deeply in their sexual fantasy. And describing your actions will really get him into it, even with his eyes closed. It is much easier to project. 

Also, dirty talk has the benefit of allowing you to make your shows last longer. The more you describe each little detail, every effect and feeling, the slower the rhythm of your show will naturally become, as if you were really together. So don’t hesitate to say what and how you feel. Say what you’re doing to your body but also what you would like to do to it. Use descriptive words that suit the group or person you are playing with, and don’t be afraid to be creative!

Don’t hesitate to ask questions

If you’re not used to it and it seems out of your comfort zone, a little erotic reading might help. This will give you a stream of words or phrases that can be said and that you can store in a corner of your brain to bring out in due course. Don’t hesitate to repeat them aloud to practice. You can also browse through naughty blogs and forums to find out more about different fantasies. This will help you to be more creative. 

If improvisation is still a problem, you can also talk about your sex life off camera. Don’t hesitate to embellish it, either. Guys love to imagine women with an overactive libido in action. It stimulates their imagination. 

But above all, for quality dirty talk, ask questions. Ask them what their fantasies are, what they like, what they would do if they were with you right now, etc. Also ask questions where you know the answer will be “yes”, like “do you like my curves/breasts/butt?”; “Are you hard/turned on for me?”, etc, etc.

The trick is to put a few crude or naughty words in the middle of your sentence. The ones you wouldn’t dare say in a “normal” conversation. 

To learn, you have to start

They say that practice makes perfect and that is true here. You will learn best by getting started and refining your techniques. If some of them stay silent during your shows, you will always have some who will be more involved, and it is thanks to them that you will learn to better understand the desires of each viewer. There are always some great classics that work with many of them… 

Don’t be afraid to repeat yourself. If you feel like you’re going around in circles, your client probably doesn’t, and he’s probably having a moment of absolute ecstasy. He likes you and you excite him – that’s what counts. The performances become easier with time. After a few shows you will be able to use past performances for future inspiration. A lot of clients like similar things.

If you make a mistake, it’s not serious. Just make a joke out of it. Self-deprecation will always work better than heavy embarrassment. This also excites them. So, relax, have fun and… Long live dirty talk!