Maybe you’ve already heard of Findom: financial domination. These games of financial submission can be done in person but also online. Findom can make you a lot of money. 

This activity links fetishism and money. It has become increasingly popular in recent years. It would therefore be a shame not to look into the subject. With Findom no obligation of sex, just a need for domination from those who like to payout money. Everything happens by simple banking transactions, between the submissive named “the paying pigs”, “loyal supporters”, “losers”, the “pig”. The feelings are above all psychic here. 

Mistresses, on the other hand, are treated like goddesses. And called as such. Or “queens”. They enjoy dominating their submissives and especially their bank accounts. For the amount, it depends on the moment. From the small to the large sum, from a simple purchase such as a garment or an accessory, or something much bigger, what makes these submissives vibrate is that they are “extorted” money while pleasing them. What matters is to satisfy their mistress. 

And the more they take it from them, the more they love it. Some will feel the pleasure of offering, others that of seeing all this money being spent on the orders of the Goddesses, it all depends on the submissive. They can send  money by a simple common pot, PayPal, Wishlists, created by these women. Want to change your specialty?

What exactly is Findom?

The goddesses or queens will ask for money from their paying pigs, real slaves in front of them. They will be able to spend it via certain internet platforms, such as PayPal or Amazon, with in return, their simple satisfactions. 

And no need to give sex in return. Not even a sexy photo! It’s not what they expect, and they don’t want it anyway. This is a simple power game with a strong psychological grip. Domination – submission. For the enjoyment of both.

We have already seen some dominatrixes earn more than 2000 € per week, even much more, not counting gifts. In addition, Findom, or banking fetishism, is a sexual practice that is becoming more and more popular over the years. It is also possible to sell your freshly worn panties to earn even more money. 

It’s up to you to set the limits with your submissive, if you wish. As this relationship is based above all on trust, they will not exceed them. Respect is a basis of Findom. Without it, there is no healthy and secure financial dominance. Like every practice, everything depends on the desires, the will or the limits of each. This psychological game is a real addiction for some submissives, who explain that they can no longer do without the feeling they feel, they mentally enjoy their submission to their goddesses. Many like to feel humiliation in obeying his goddess.

If some think that this is an abuse of weakness, it is not because there is the consent of both parties. And there is no abuse. It is just a special pleasure.

Growing popularity

The first reason is that it is a simple practice. Although it is a form of domination, there is no whip, latex outfits or a special need for knowledge. And in addition, there is no sex. Only advantages! There’s also no need to undress or do strange things in front of a screen or lens. 

On the other hand, it can help you pay debts,  cope with a hard time, or simply offer you comfort. And your slave will love you only more. What better job than feeling superior, dominating men, and taking incredible pleasure in spending money you don’t have? It is an exchange of good will, and everyone finds happiness.

We even see some relationships based solely on a monthly exchange to take stock of her needs and expenses. Simple talk, general updates about each other’s feelings, while keeping in mind the dominant/submissive relationship. The frequency all depends on the relationship that is established.

What profile to become a goddess?

There is no age but we will often find young women, with a neat image. Sophisticated, charismatic, full of confidence and assurance, they will still have a particular style of dress. We often find the mesh in their look and they know how to instantly dominate a man. They have a great facility to be revered by the latter, making them dream, and spend their money with simple sentences. Some subjective photos without ever revealing on their online profiles.

How to become a Goddess in the Findom experience?

It’s not as simple as it seems. It is already necessary to have abilities in seduction. you also have to have worked on yourself to know yourself well and know how to adjust your personality according to your freelance. This must be seen through the networks. 

You can then dominate them without remorse. And they love it. Because then you will be an exceptional woman, whom they will always dream of reaching but whom they will only touch with their fingertips. It is this inaccessible side that made them vibrate. So do not hesitate to stand out from the crowd. Being like everyone else will be far too banal for them and you will not evoke any desire. To have one’s own way of speaking, to communicate with one’s financial slaves, is to know how to speak with some, to ignore others, to adapt to their desires which will certainly be different from each other, without ever going beyond the psychic, mental pleasure of spending money on you.

First steps in findomming

The best is to establish a regulation on your profile. Thus, it will naturally clean up with the interested parties and others, and you will not waste your time. Having your Sugar Daddy, it’s also deserved! For example, you will put on the profile of your social networks: 

• Send an offering between €5 and €25 before sending a message to prove your commitment,
• Specify in his first messages his salary and how much he can offer each month,
• What exactly the slave is looking for,
• Gain the trust of the dominatrix by exploring her fantasies, regularly asking how to make her queen happy,
• Sincerely appreciate the Goddess-Pig paying relationship.

On accounts created on social networks, do not forget to put a nice profile picture with a description and a catchphrase to attract your slaves. No vulgarity, they won’t like it. Post of topics related to Findom. And use Hashtags that will make you known and found by some, some are very well known as on Twitter with the @FemdomFrance, or on Instagram with #Dominatrix, #Findom…

You will always have a way to collect and find slaves on social networks, no matter which one you decide to use. It should also be noted that femdom, which is female domination, goes hand in hand with financial domination. Some goddesses, obviously use porn sites, others sites created by their own imagination, dedicated only to this pleasure that is the findom. There are even Facebook groups created by goddesses and paying pigs so that everyone can find a shoe to their feet. 

Financial dominance, a full-time activity

Some Queens specify on their accounts “No offering, no interest”, and even if they are not very high, many are willing to pay just for a communication.

You will need great self-confidence, adopt a certain charisma, and this power of domination, you will have to know how to discuss with these men in a firm, or more tender way. Talk about what they are willing to bring to you every month, in order to have an agreement. This makes it possible to set the limits and rules of the game. Respect will also be required. You will have to be respected because otherwise you will lose your status as a goddess. 

Learn to write what they want to hear on an instagram post, some will appreciate that you are a domineering goddess with a high appreciation of yourself, while others will wait more to read a sentence showing your strong dominant side. The operation is the same on a dominatrix site.

Another piece of advice is organization. Without a perfect organization, you will quickly be overwhelmed. It’s a job, you have to do it well. Especially if you want to make a lot of money to see one of your personal projects come to fruition one day. For some, a few months were enough! And they live with all the comforts they want: home, car, business, clothes, holidays, etc… Organize your bank accounts, and have goals, do not forget the “Why” you do findom, and not anything else. 

One last tip before embarking on the findom, find out as much as possible about how this sexual game is played. Throwing yourself headlong is not a good idea, far from it, you have to know what you are about to launch. Be sure of what you want, without ever realizing something you don’t want to do, for the simple pleasure of your submissive, you dominate the game.