Femdom, or female domination, is becoming more and more popular. This term may vaguely tell you something, or not. Let’s explore this topic together.
The “Femdom” means “Female Domination”, it means that the woman is dominant in the enclosure of the couple, or everyday life. It is a phenomenon that is far from recent. We saw it’s appearance in 1986! It was used alot in the world of porn, in the fetishistic universe of BDSM. In the relationship we find the dominant / dominated.
One can practice Femdom in a purely sexual way with the usual image of the dominatrix in the bedroom. It can also be practiced in other ways, such as Findom for example, where money dominates, without sex. The common point is that the man becomes the slave of the woman.
Femdom, a way of life to embrace
So what is certain is that Femdom is not just a hobby. It’s a real way of life. Women who engage in Femdom have real power over men and it’s hard to live this lifestyle part-time. The female dominates from beginning to end; in the frolic as in the relationship.
A femdom appreciate the pain and humiliation inflicted on their man, with intense pleasure. It does not matter how each one is dressed during the session (Latex, leather, mesh, completely nude). The experience remains to be enjoyed on both sides. It should be said that there is no right or wrong way to do things. Femdom is unique to each relationship. It is important to define the degree of possession; what is allowed or not. If you are a beginner, gradually let yourself be carried away by an experienced dominant. Let your dominant decide what you will do throughout the game.
The Femdom will bring you new sensations.
Whatever your gender (sadism, BDSM, humiliation, …). You will explore new feelings and this will give birth to new fantasies, new excitements. In other words, all beneficial. Know that some people push the dominant / dominated relationship in everyday life. The woman controls everything with everyone’s agreement of course. The relationship is based on respect, trust, and the consent of both parties.
Those who push this kind of relationship to the extreme seek satisfaction. Being dominated as a young man, he will forge a personality in domination. This will be reflected in every aspect of their lives, as a submissive partner.
The feeling of power, and control seduces. These women take the opportunity to present Femdom in their way of dressing; looking sexy for the most part. Men with a submissive character tend to look for women with a stronger character; a desire for domination.
Femdom seduces more and more women
And there’s a lot to it. These dominant women will be in the bedroom, also at work, and in their various relationships. And who doesn’t love a little power huh?! Men, on the other hand, appreciate being soiled and humiliated by women, especially when the latter is dressed in leather, latex and mesh.
The dominant will give orders, blows, mental suffering or lashes strong enough to mark the body of her submissive. Suffering is not obligatory in a “Femdom” relationship. This relationship can be based solely on domination, orders, submission of the other. In short, Femdom is a sexuality in its own right.
The limits are set and discussed between the two parties (if the dominant/submissive relationship is only in the sexual side).
If the submissive does not want to undergo certain things that are too painful, or that scare him, the dominant will not do it. Some, however, will push the game to the extreme with more suffering, supplications, strong humiliations to the point of becoming a dog. This is where we can see the dick rating appear, which consists in mocking the size of the penis of her partner. One can go as far as penis cages and chastity belts, for those who really love pain.
The field is vast and experiences varied. Trust must be established in the couple. It is also good to prevent your submissive from touching you and punish him with various objects if he does.
Before, men dominated everything. But in recent years, the roles reversed, evolved and therefore women have more opportunities to take power and dominate in different areas of life. Women have more freedom, gained self-confidence, assume much more and Femdom naturally grew. To the delight of these gentlemen!
What do men like about female domination?
Many men appreciate being dominated, humiliated, disciplined in front of these women. They feel more adult, more masculine by exceeding their personal boundaries.
A Femdom pushes their partner to the limit little by little, they force him to grow internally. To live experiences that they have not lived like the femdom chastity. Feeling loved by a woman of power when you are a submissive man, is an inexplicable and intense feeling. Savored by men who know this kind of relationship.
Some men, however, say they do not like to be dominated, for fear of losing their manhood. For them, it is an admission of weakness. They feel useless and helpless. If they like it, very few will admit it publicly. That’s the paradox, they love it but are afraid of it. The loss of power paralyzes them. Yet, more and more men are passing the course and letting go. Leaving control to the women also excites them, this tends to increase the power of an orgasm; especially with penetration.
It’s nice to no longer be the master of decisions and to let yourself be carried away by the gentle authoritarian voice of your dominatrix. Obey and be silent. Men take strong, intense pleasure, from the orders and abuses practised on them. This cause an erotic intensity with a particular sexual fulfillment. Voluntarily losing control to experience stronger pleasure, was for years something that women practiced much more frequently than men who saw sex only through domination.
Getting started
In our time, more and more men like to be subjected to a “Femdom”. They appreciate letting go of freedom, boosting intensity, and stronger orgasms. Women finally take advantage of their power. The man will have to wait wisely for his dominatrix to allow him to freely let go of the particular intensity offered in the moment.
If you want to get started, there are categories on the platforms. I advise you to follow a few steps. Start with a simple conversation to see what you can do or not. Offer him a small toy to start (don’t scare him with a large dildo). Set the limits and both enjoy it.